Gambling with Manilow

Vegas. The place where we all take chances. We feed slot machines with coins hoping to get lucky. And this week the fans will be back gambling with Manilow, hoping to win! And in my estimation it's a pretty sure bet.

If you gamble with Manilow you're sure to "win" a few things:

• Tons of fun
• Boatloads of emotions
• Mountains of memories...and last but not least...
• Immeasureable joy

If you've been a fan for very long you know that he's the real deal. He delivers what he promises and he gives 100 percent every time he walks out on that stage. From power ballads, to uptempo renditions of his classics, to amazing piano duels, that 90 minutes of Manilow is worth every penny and more. There's not a bad seat in the house. And if you walk into that theater down or depressed, or even just needing a little boost of hope, you'll always leave feeling better than you did when you came in.

I'll take those odds any day of the week!
Texas Fan

BTW I don't know about you but I sure do miss those Manilow slot machines at the Hilton. I wish they would bring them back. They were TONS of fun!

The World of Manilow

Imagine if you will, minding your own business, walking along a public street and out of nowhere someone jumps out with a camera and snaps multiple photos of you.

Imagine you're walking on a beach with your dogs and someone takes a photograph of you from thousands of yards away with a telephoto lens.

Imagine walking in downtown Toronto and having a discussion with your friends and someone across the street snaps a photograph of that conversation.

Imagine going out to dinner with friends and being greeted by hundreds of cameras as you exit the restaurant, snapping pictures as you leave and firing off questions.

Now...imagine having those photographs posted all over the internet with captions that didn't necessarily pertain to the photos, but were the photographer's interpretation of what was happening, even without speaking to you.

Next...imagine your fans, discussing and theorizing about those photos and captions without any personal knowledge of you or what your life is truly about off the stage.

Finally...imagine those same fans following your every move (outside of the venue where you give of yourself and your music for their enjoyment) and ask for even more from you time after time after time when you're just trying to enjoy an evening after the show with your friends.

Such is the world of Manilow. I know that a celebrity, by definition, must accept this type of scrutiny. But it must be hard to wake up every morning, knowing that at some point, someone will invade your space and make you wish you weren't so famous. Especially when all you ever wanted to do was make music.

Heavy sigh,
Texas Fan

Rocking Manilow

Photo from left to right: John Corabi, Dee Snider , Barry Manilow,
Rudy Sarzo, Bruce Kulick, Fred Coury, and Tony Montana.

On March 19th Barry took in Monster Circus at the Hilton. Barry and Rock. You don't see those two words together often in the same sentence. And yet, there he is. Guitarist Bruce Kulick said, "He was totally rocking with the Monster Circus concept of high energy rock-n-roll in the Hilton showroom". Barry. Totally rocking.

And the thought crossed my mind. Barry. Rock. New rock album. Hanging with rockers. What better way to gain some inspiration, camaraderie and street cred than hanging out with hair band rockers the likes of these guys? I'm liking the idea. I can see it now, "The critics RAVE about new ROCK sensation BARRY MANILOW". Now that, my friends, is a headline.

Rock on!
Texas Fan

BTW-Liking the jeans and the casual jacket. That's the Manilow I'd like to see more of.

Motivation and Manilow

This morning I woke up singing one of my favorite Manilow songs:

Come Monday, Come Monday,
My life starts again.
My new point of view is beginning.
Come Monday, that one day
My ship's coming in.
And this time I'm ready to roll...

Mondays are always about new beginnings. I can't help but wake up every Monday and feel like I can always start over. Barry captured that feeling in the stories in this song. The players are making a plan, going back to school, joining a gym, losing weight, and generally starting over. Those stories motivate me in so many ways today. They motivate me to pursue my goals, my dreams and to know that we all need to start over at times. The past is the past so to speak. The future is as great as we want it to be.

We've had tons of "Mondays" in the Manilow world. And on this Monday a new week begins and the promise of some great shows in Vegas. Plus, the motivation to count our blessings and be thankful that when we need a jump start, Barry's always there to ramp up our engines and motivate us to do great things!

Feeling motivated,
Texas Fan

Dealing with Disappointments the Manilow Way-Part 2

This morning the sun is up and all things should look more clear in dawn's early light. At least that's always my hope.

I don't know about you, but there are a few things re: Manilow that I'm thankful for today. And instead of focusing on speculation or contrived theory about the events of this weekend, I'd much rather focus on the positive. My mother always taught me: when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

1. He's still out there giving us "live" performances of the music. And even though there will always be cancellations because it's the nature of the business, he is still giving back to his fans after all these years.
2. He's still recording albums. And not just ONE every 3 or 4 years. We've had 4 in a row with a promise of an "original" one coming soon.
   
3. His music still brings people together. Many of us have found new friends at the shows, online and met in person.
4. His music still comforts us when we need it the most. We turn to it when heartache comes; when we want to dance; when life is hard and we need a musical boost.
   
5. He has given all of us some wonderful memories. Those memories are the substance of our love for Barry and his music. Those memories are tied to our lives and when we think of them, even today, we smile.

It's phenomenal, and yes, even miraculous that after all these years he's still up on that stage giving his best and trying to provide his fans with those 5 gifts I just mentioned. I'm 55 and I don't have half his energy and stamina. The rigors of his schedule and his life exhaust me just thinking about them. At this point in his career, he doesn't NEED to get out there on that stage week after week. He could retire like most of us do and just make music. But he does. Not only that, but he puts up with more intrusion into his personal space and private life than any of us could ever imagine. For that, in my eyes, he's got the patience of Job. I can't even begin to fathom the emotions that must surface when this happens.

Today is the kind of day that we need to take a step back and look at the BIG picture. For me, it embodies those 5 gratitudes. If I have those, I have everything. And Barry, I don't say this enough:

Thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing
Thanks for all the joy they're bringing
Who can live without it, I ask in all honesty
What would life be?
Without a song or a dance what are we?
So I say thank you for the music
For giving it to me.

Texas Fan

Dealing with Disappointments the Manilow Way

Barry's Back but obviously the sound is not. Last night's show at the Hilton was canceled due to technical difficulties. If you've been a fan for very long, you know it's bound to happen. Barry gets sick. The sound board doesn't work. The weather interferes. Because in this life, stuff happens.

As a Manilow fan, we've learned to deal with those disappointments using calm and logic. After we cry, and fret, and rant, and rave, and DRINK and sometimes even break something! We've drowned our sorrows in alcoholic beverages, non-alcoholic beverages and even food at the Paradise Cafe.

But one thing's for certain, we eventually return to our senses and rise to face another hopeful day that tonight's show will indeed go on as scheduled. So to all those in Vegas who were disappointed last night, remember...dealing with disappointment the Manilow way puts you in the ranks of all those who have gone before you. And the good news is, we survived!

Here's to Las Vegas AND the "technical difficulty" repairman!
Texas Fan

Barry's Back!

Barry's back in Vegas! It's always an exciting time when his show returns to the Hilton. The fans get amped up on the MMN and the Barrynet. When he steps out on stage the magic always happens.

In a recent interview, he put it very simply:
"It is kind of lonely up on that stage. There aren't that many people doing what I do. There's never been [anybody like me], by the way. I have my own little slice of the pie. It's small, but it's mine."

Small? I don't think you'd call it small. Perhaps in the sense that he's the only one out there doing what he's doing and attracting the type of crowds he does after 30 years. But at last check, the fan base is growing, adding younger fans and appealing to a whole group of Generation Yers who are looking for "music" and have found it in his arrangements and his genuine ability to deliver that honest emotion.

Things are always brighter in Vegas when Barry's there. Smiles abound.

Here's to Las Vegas. It's one of a kind. Here's to the smiles all around!
Texas Fan

Geeks Rule!

On one of Barry's cover albums, there was a short "this is how it's done" included. When my friend and I watched that video of him talking about his shoe planter we fell on the floor laughing. And his in-depth discussion of how he goes about finalizing the songs on his computer in his studio was priceless. We looked at each other and said, "Geek!" Mind you we both married geeks. So when we said it, it was in fond adoration. Truth be told, I'm a geek at heart as well.

Yesterday, in an online article, Barry himself admitted it:

Q: So you were the original Williamsburg hipster.
A: I wasn't really a hipster. I was a geek.

Q: Hey, geeks rule the world now, right?
A: You know, you're right. That was me. Steve Jobs? Bill Gates? See how they look? That's exactly how I looked. Worse! My hair was slicked down with a part. But that was before I discovered the blow-dryer. Now I'm fabulous.

You really are FABULOUS Barry. Still a geek, but fabulous!

Geeks Rule!
Texas Fan

Read the rest of the article here

Six Degrees of Barry Manilow

Years ago, there was a popular game called "Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon". The premise was that you could tie him to any movie or actor with six connections or less. Tonight on Facebook, one of my friends and I played this game. Unintentionally, of course. It was past my bedtime for sure and the conversation began with the new Facebook rules and ended unintentionally talking about Barry's passion for the color black. It got me thinking...how often does that happen?

It's not that we don't have other things to talk about. We do. We both have very full lives right now and numerous topics of conversation to pursue. But for some bizarre reason, when two Manilow fans are discussing life, the conversation always tends to come back to all things Manilow.

Here's how the conversation progressed:

• I’m not sure about the new Facebook setup.
• Oh come on..Embrace the change!
• I am sick and tired of change. That is all I do!
• Get used to it deary. It's life! You have at least 50-60 more years of it!
• Thanks for ruining the next 60 years of my life! haha! Actually I am so used to change that if things didn't change, I think I wouldn't know what to do. That's frightening!
• No. You've learned a valuable life lesson. It took me 50 years to figure that one out. My mother told me at 30, and I didn't believe her.
• I learned that a few years ago. haha! and I will be 30 this year!
• You've got 20 years on me. Just think of the misery you are avoiding by figuring it out now. You're still a BABY!
• Haha! So true. But I think age is only a number. . . at least right now. That view might change as I get older. haha
• Age is only a state of mind. What age do you want me to be?
• So true! besides they say that 30 is the new 20. LOL! Whatever THAT is supposed to mean. Is that like brown is the new black?
• Have to ask B about that. He's the BLACK expert!
• Remind me and I will!
• Ok. Let me know what he says. I'm curious..because he's got the black down to a science.
• I know. Poor thing needs to branch out into the world of COLOR! Of course this coming from someone who about of my closet is black
• I would be happy if he would just wear white. But I'm with you, most of my clothes are black as well. We're such experts aren't we????
• He looks good in white. But black hides everything sooo well. Yes we are THE fashionistas!
• From Facebook, to Age, to clothes, to B...4 degrees of Manilow!
• Sad. . .huh? We do have all kinds of things to talk about. Anyone who tried to follow this link could be very confused!
• Yes..they would be VERY confused. Gotta love it though.

We did it in less than six degrees. It only took four. It never fails to happen. From life, to the economy, to politics, to passion, to music, to Manilow. Try it for yourself sometime. See how many steps it takes for you to get there.

Enjoying the journey,
Texas Fan

Class vs Crass

Rolling Stone magazine quoted this famous pop artist this weekend:

“We did some stupid casino gig in Palm Springs for one of the high rollers there. These private gigs are like doing a bar mitzvah. They're not fun because they're for private audiences, not paying audiences. They're not your audience. They don't know your stuff. They're there just to say they were there.

“I feel like a slut when I do them, but you get paid like a really good call girl. When I walk offstage, it's like the walk of shame.”

Believe it or not, it was Billy Joel. Imagine that. Imagine taking the money from this private party and then complaining about it.

Does Barry ever have to deal with those kind of audiences in Vegas? You bet. Does he ever have to deal with rude fans? All the time. And yet, he doesn't spout his mouth off to the press when the audience won't get into the music or applaud at the appropriate moment.

There have been numerous times Barry has performed for non-fans. Most recently in a benefit for breast cancer. Was the audience composed of fans? No. There were clearly people there who were less than enthusiastic. The dance girl even made some rather negative comments that night. But Barry didn't run to the press complaining about it.

Maybe Billy needs to have a sit down with Barry and learn from the master of decorum and gratitude. I guess their money was good enough to take but not good enough to be appreciative of the fact that 1-his music is still in demand, 2-he's still working, and 3-he's not living homeless on the streets.

Guess that's the difference between class and crass,
Texas Fan